It is a great myth about relations with your partner. We are going through life looking for our soul mate, but perhaps we are not oranges but Grapefruits or lemons. Then do you strive in search to our other half? In couple’s life there are no halves, but complete, and individual people but the reality is that that belief is rooted in a child, dependent and completely riddled with longing for a series of expectations that the couple has to comply. How we walk in search of the other half and we neither citrus are, because we’re always in trouble. We are seeing only a part of the reality. A myth more guides us towards the suffering that into a reality. The couple is a complement of human life, is essential, through it we transcend, we love us, ourselves, we got together and we love each other, and in addition, we live and accompany us in common. However, when we are thinking that the couple is the one that is going to complete as a result, it means that we feel incomplete in life.

In such a way that we feel frustrated, disappointed and filled with anger and suffering when our partner fails to fit with all our thoughts, feelings and desires. Also can happen otherwise, when I can’t fit with that partner then, we started a process of shut up, assign allow, blur us. We become as if we were mid oranges. We become what we are not, but yes we rededicate ourselves as our partner need us to be. So we are going for life in couple trying to be what we are not, having a color that is not ours, trying to be fruit when we are human. Human beings are not an orange and we are already, by contrast, beings that every day we are growing and developing our life, but live life as half Orange, is to be with the half life, half of love, half of the joy, the problem starts when the reasons which are, one halfIt begins to rot. That means that I will infect the same thing.

In other words, if I live with the infection of violence late than early as I am half I will get, yes my other half is sick with jealousy, of course, that it will reach my life with suspicion and harassment. Yes my other half can not be unfaithful, then, very soon I will live with that half feel excluded and abandoned. Do you realize the implications that must be next to a couple that is considered: the other half? We are individual people and that is our wealth, therefore, contributes not your 50% but your 100% to your relationship and you will surely be able to live a more satisfying link. Visit our site. Thanks for reading my mission is the quality of emotional life. In the book How to recover trust in love, we take hand for you having the tools and walk a grieving process and build a life project enters our site and get free: the ten commandments of life in couple original author and source of the article.

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