Posts Tagged ‘friends & relationship’

Athletes

Many men are enthusiastic about the sport; may be, that she sometimes even eager Athletes were, but it is also not always the case, if it attracts a man in front of the TV or in the stadium. They are sometimes no active athletes, but her heart beats faster at every shot goal, when every victory of the beloved team. Not a football game, not a boxing match or maybe even a game of tennis may be missed now. Since you have to hold even, get through friends, acquaintances or even just so coveted tickets. What could be better to see the favourite team live and to experience it all in the stadium itself.

So maybe you are choosing a football weekend at the club or for a practical gift certificate for the permanent car wash. You can give the man a wellness voucher. He then let the stress of the hustle and bustle of everyday life behind, forget all the worries and relax. The wellness takes place regardless of the weather.Different massages, baths are offered here, it is good if you have all the necessary things to: slippers, bathing suits, a Towel, bathrobe, shampoo. After the spa day, you feel like a new person. You can invite the man to the excavator testing excavator fun experience. It is then, as earlier in childhood, the boy with pleasure in the sandbox playing.

And the kids also very much like to watch how a backhoe performs its work. The excavator lifting manholes, carries large mountain masses. But now an adult, which is perhaps far away from this area and understands nothing of it, but was always an excavator, can experience itself. He should try it yourself. He can now even remember how it feels to control such a large machine. So, the man gets the experience of the power and technical precision there as a gift.

Diseases

Who can say no is sick! To stay healthy and be capable of relationship, people need the ability to be able to differentiate themselves physically, intellectually and emotionally. Who can say no is sick! Many symptoms and diseases, such as, for example, depression, anxiety, eating disorders, addictions, Burnout, abuse, violence, and marital and relationship difficulties have their origin in disturbed dealing with the borders. Conflicts with boundaries have not always disease character. Guilt at the no-tell, a constant feeling of responsibility for everything and everyone, an excessive commitment and sustained effort to reduce the feeling of life, prevent successful relationships and inevitably lead to the excessive demands. Body and soul are tired; your limits are reached and are exceeded. The ability to use secure internal and external borders, is already marked in childhood. In children from families with alcohol, sucht-, or mental Diseases, violence and abuse experiences, constant dispute, devaluations, separation experiences and overtaxing the personal boundaries of children are constantly exceeded and injured.

A child experiencing no healthy boundaries, it will be hard, to be able to set reasonable limits him as adults. Setting healthy boundaries see what belongs to its own responsibility is and what is not. Reasonable limits protect the own needs, talents and skills and make them the other. Sure set boundaries make more relaxed, more confident and creative. Clear limits are orientation. They allow relationships that carry. Launch seminars on the borders”to help find security in dealing with the borders. The participants learn to recognize what their limitations are, how they can be developed and deployed as they. Work is done with family constellations, physical exercises (Aikido), mental exercises, conversation and meditation.